13 years and two small children

[Hurt213]

Yes I did, and he advised me against moving out as well. I do believe I will be telling her tonight, that since she is the one to break up the family, it is only reasonable that she is the one, who leaves the family house until it is sold, if that is what she needs in order to heal.

I will be paying attention and showing her that I listen to what she has to say, and I will control my feelings, even if she acts out of way, however I will be firm on the fact, that I am not moving out, along as the house is not sold.

Im still so very baffled by the fact, that a woman can fall in love, and choose to ruin her family within 6 weeks. However I am beginning to realize that I have to move forward, and let her do her thing (even though it is really hard).