Update: Tried to do 180. He started talking about it (blames me that his children are upset with him, instead of blaming himself that he had an emotional affair that also involved her interacting with their children, without their knowledge).
Marriage appears to be over.
Waywards love the blame game, and they fear other people finding out about their indiscretions. My H has said on several occasions that if it got around that he had an A with his latest, he would have to move. Really? This is the woman he said he loved? I guess not enough to profess it publicly. He is also deathly afraid his kids will find out. IF they ask specifically, I will tell them to talk to their father. Let him try to lie his way out of it. My S21 asked if dad was having an affair when I told them we were separated. I truthfully told them I didn't think so, because he wasn't when he moved out to my knowledge, but if he asks about the past, I'm passing the buck to the offender.
