13 years and two small children

[Hurt213]

Update:

She wrote me a text message today at work: She wants us to talk tonight about contacting more real estate brokers, so the house can sell faster.

She also wants us to talk about custody because her psyciatrist told her yesterday, that it was unhealthy for us to be in the same household anymore when we were splitting up (???? i don't get that advice - she also advised my ex to tell me that we should have a 7-7 days agreement with our kids because we were both great parents <-- the woman has never met me, nor is she a child specialist, how can she possible give that kind of advice?)

Basically she wants to talk tonight about making an agreement on who is in the house during the week, she wants to stay a couple of days, and then I can come and stay a couple of days - I think this will confuse the kids, but I don't know how to talk to her about this - In all honesty, I think if she is in such a rush, she should just move out ?

I am desperate for some insight / help / guidance????????