MLC probably gives us enough time to heal and shift and decide which new direction to take and it takes most of us a few years to make some new turns I think the time is never wasted no matter how long it all takes we keep growing learning and changing becoming better parents better more independent people better self esteem and whatever direction we take--it is right and we get ready tp move forward and then more and I agree with you will get out of this phase exactly at the right timing
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