My W has never once said the word "D" and yet has goaded me into threatening it, twice. It's what they want. Feeds into the "poor me" narrative. And they know how reactive we are, so they use it against us.
Same here, my WW swore up and down she didnt want a D, and that she only wanted to get out and do things. Then she proceeded to do everything possible to try and get me to ask for a D. My WW clearly wanted a D, but initially didnt want to have to tell anyone she filed.
If i were you id be patient, and just say it was said out of the heat of the moment in anger and doesnt reflect your true feelings (if thats the case).
If it gets brought up again, I will say that. I just said that I need time to think about it while my emotions subside.
