So since my 180 of my request to attorney to get D finalized, it’s been deathly silent from her counsel. I met with attorney this morning to review proposal to bring D decree to a close. I also advised A to inform WAW counsel about my other situation where case was thrown out. Lawyer was in agreement that W and her attorney were anticipating other outcome in which she would have been able to make a play at full custody. He then asked if W were to reach out to me and see about R what would I do....I honestly can’t answer that now. I have fully let W go and I’m content with the man I’ve become. My continued growth and active DB’ing has given me full confidence that I’m going to thrive moving forward. And if a possibility of R were to present itself.....one of the things I want that W couldn’t give me is more kids. She lost that due to her playing roulette with her body one too many times. One of the things S wants more than anything is to have a sibling...and moving on with someone else could give me and him that opportunity.
As it’s been said often on these boards, it’s amazing that by time if a WAW starts to come back to the MR...the LBS is the one that is done. That’s where I feel I am today.
I truly now feel as if the tables have turned and everything in my life is on the up and up. W on other hand is stuck in her resentment, her actions, and choices that now make her to appear very selfish, spoiled, & bratty. Or just a plain A$$Hole. Definitely not someone who deserves a chance with me.
GAL activities today include 6 mike run, lunch with an old friend, divorcecare group, and bike ride with S after school.
Last edited by EZdozit; 10/23/1807:55 PM.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
