You should have asked her what kind of healthy relationship starts between two people when one of the parties is married?
Adding gasoline to the fire, my friend. A valid point, but I'm learning that WW do not listen to reason.
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B/c she isn't sure what she wants. So stop pressuring not matter what you choose.[ /quote]
No more pressure. My final say was "I will proceed when I am ready."
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And as a final stab, she told me that I'm being vindictive because I'm jealous.
Is that her way of deflecting the reality of the horrible things she is doing onto you? Jealous? No sugar tits, I'm not jealous of a cheater and POS (the OM_. You haven't even let her feel the consequences of her own decision yet. She wants out, but you've been padding the way for her so far. Let reality hit her and quit talking to her. Separate finances, kick her out, use a SET schedule for the D4 and don't talk to your W. Boom. Done. You'll feel better and your W will have consequences to her choice.
Those decisions are being planned right now. When I go there, it will be a calm, civil conversation.
