Starting over...for the final time (pain DB VI)

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she was angry and told me that she needs to see what a "healthy, affectionate relationship" should look like.

You should have asked her what kind of healthy relationship starts between two people when one of the parties is married?

We proceeded to talk about D. Though she brought it up and asked me to file. [ /quote] B/c she isn't sure what she wants. So stop pressuring not matter what you choose.

[quote] And as a final stab, she told me that I'm being vindictive because I'm jealous.

Is that her way of deflecting the reality of the horrible things she is doing onto you? Jealous? No sugar tits, I'm not jealous of a cheater and POS (the OM_. You haven't even let her feel the consequences of her own decision yet. She wants out, but you've been padding the way for her so far. Let reality hit her and quit talking to her. Separate finances, kick her out, use a SET schedule for the D4 and don't talk to your W. Boom. Done. You'll feel better and your W will have consequences to her choice.