I have begun applying the rules from the Sandi thread - She is acting friendly and asked me yesterday evening where I was going, and today she asked if I was going out, to which I replied, yes I am going out with a friend. She doesn't take any more interest, and I believe it is a matter of her just knowing if I will be in the house or not, nothing else.
I will enforce the rules, and focus on myself, since I have pleaded, begged and done all the wrong things already over the past 3 months, so this is my last shot at it, and whatever happens hopefully by focusing on me, I will come out stronger. She doesn't seem concerned or interested in me or my wellbeing anymore, and I have begun searching for a new living space for me and my two kids and I actually do not dread the idea, even though I of course wish that we will figure this out. She is very much in love with the OM it seems, and I don't know of it is infatuation / love fog, or if she really detached completely and just moved on.
Hoping for some input
BD: Wife says "its over" 11th august 2018. EA: June 2018 PA: August 2018 - ongoing Status: Taking turns 7 days a week to be in the house w. kids WW: no regrets, seems happy with leaving.
