We basically surrendered last night. The M is over. Vanilla was right. W is in a transitional R.
This is me truly letting go. This is me surrendering. This is me accepting that our R is truly over.
No busting this D. It’s likely to happen
I’m tired. Tired of fighting a losing battle. Tired of the anxiety and sleepless nights. And tired or putting hope into something that a left a long time ago.
I am terribly sad.
Of course you "surrendered". You pressured the hell out of her and right now it seems easier to quit to both of you. What was the point of all the pressure and pursuit the last few days? Did it do anything positive?
Even if you decided to divorce, the pressure is useless.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.