Thank you OneArt, your post makes a lot of sense & I’m so grateful that you took the time to reply. I really admire your resolve & strength. I will try not to blame the OW in future, as hard as it is - that may have to be a “work in progress”!

You are right, I need to value me & live my life. I’ll try to remember your words & the poem next time I’m having a bad day.

Thank you for words of wisdom..

I wish you all the best.

Ruby


M 1986
ILYBINILWY Jan 2016
Found out about affair May 2016.
H 57yrs. OW 23 yrs younger.
Separated Sept 2016