H:"W, We both know you are still in contact with OM. I decided there is no point in going to MC."
I disagree.
DBing should make you a better version of yourself, not a worse one.
It's fine not to go, but tell the counselor and your W in advance.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
