Coming out of the Fog

[DonH]

JuJu I've seen this whatever it is with your new guy happen multiple times now. From all I can tell it's more about you than it is about him. Is it truly hormonal? Is it really only every 30 days that you feel this way? If it is, then I think you already have your answer. If not, then what? I think you might be lucky he's putting up with it. Many of us might say, enough is enough - and he might get to that point. Especially if he's giving you good advice and you are doing the exact opposite just to spite him - wow that's childish and you know it.

They say love is a choice and I guess to some degree I agree. What is it that is holding you back with him or that keeps you unsure? How would you feel if he came to you next week and said "JuJu this just isn't working. You are not treating me well and I can't keep kissing your arse all the time. I think I need a break." How do you think you would feel? Relieved? Really upset? Because either you are not feeling it for this guy and are trying because you think you should, or you have some emotional maturing to do. If it's truly just PMS then you simply need to acknowledge that and get through it.