I'd agree with you for just about every sitch except IH. I think he should be the one in control in this case, and not come across as being at her mercy. If it were 4 1/2 years ago before their D, then yes I'd agree. At this point he has nothing to gain by listening and validating. He's been down that road with this woman before
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
