Steve, I am going to disagree with you about IH preempting the conversation. Let her talk and see what she says. And then calibrate your response. I always like to have more information than less, even if it's going to $uck. Let her talk and then respond. That would be my take.
I agree.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof