I'm only 3 weeks separated, and it feels a lot longer. I really don't know how some of you folks do this for 6 months, or years. How can anyone recover a marriage after that long? How long do you wait for them to talk about the R? Does the LBS NEVER bring it up if we have hope for MR?
I've been going on 10 months. Believe me, it takes a lot of time. I'm still wanting answers. I used to want R. But after this last weekend, I am just wanting this painful chapter of my life to end, whether it's in R or D. And it felt a little empowering when I said that.
