l8, I got some really good advice early in my sitch: Please avoid the temptation to judge your standing on a day-to-day basis.

This is one of things that causes the wild emotional swings by the LBS. "Today she said she is open to R! We are on the way to saving our MR!" "Today she questioned if she can ever be in love with me again. There is no hope for R!"

Think of your sitch like the stock market. There are going to be day-to-day ups and downs. Fluctuations are the norm. What you are looking for is TRENDING. Is it trending in the right direction? Or is it trending in the wrong direction? The only way to know that is with consistent behavior one way or the other over a long period of time. Do not get excited about the daily up fluctuation nor too down over daily down fluctuation.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018