She is not working on the marriage. Believe me you will know when she is working on the marriage.
Oh trust me, I know. She keeps hiding behind the "I need time and space to figure it out" mindset. She did tell me that she's not had the urge in the past month to work on things so far. Part of that is probably my fault for not giving her the time and space to think things through. I've tried, but every 5-6 days I have a weak moment and go to her with more of my thoughts and feelings. I know this doesn't help. I'm probably a slow learner, but after a month of the same actions with no positive results, I'm all in now on not conversing with her about those things anymore.
M: 34 W:34 D:7 D:6 S:3
M: 9.5 years T: 12
OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18 IHS begins W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18 W files: 12/21/18 D Final: 2/25/19
