Hatred and bitterness shouldn't be a surprise. People rarely file for D without those two emotions. In my mind, this is actually good news. If she was showing indifference, that would be bad, but she still cares enough about you to put the effort into hatred and bitterness.
Good for you for taking the kids to Grandma.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
