Well, not sure whether to put this in the stalking basket or what.

Shortly after I helped him vacate from the home, I got new insurance cards in the mail for me and the kids. Making clear that he had informed someone he was living elsewhere. I logged into the insurance online and made an account. I remember the password and login. I've been getting new cards and EOBs at our home address. All of a sudden this am, I realized I have not received any EOBs since the spring (after a bad injury my son had). The kids and I have been to the doctor several times since then, had prescriptions filled, etc. I went to login in to the insurance online and my login doesn't work. I tried to do a password reset (I've had the same email for a long time). The system doesn't recognize my email. To set up an account I have to request a PIN by mail, which will clearly go to him. Evidently he's gone in and changed our health info over to him so he can see what doctors we are going to and getting prescribed. Getting really sick of his crap.