Originally Posted by pain18
R2C,

Is this where true detachment begins? Should I consult a lawyer about who stays and who goes and how it will affect D?

WW wants to pour out her emotions to me. I told her I will listen. I’m consciously preparing on validation and trying really hard not to bring up the sexy emails to OM I found last night. Don’t bring them up at all? Even if I’m hurting so much?


Let her vent, validate, and i wouldnt bring up what you found.


Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof