Take a day or two to clear your head. Dont make an emotional decision you may regret. After you have truly cleared your head, weigh out what you really want. You can only control yourself, but that doesnt mean that you dont have choices to dictate your own future. I wouldnt throw the D word around unless your fine with actually going that route.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof