Thank you everyone for the support. I am sadly not young anymore and do not have the ability to connect him with the excuse of the children as we do not have any. I have been keeping busy with seeing friends, going out and doing a lot of travelling, but still cry everyday missing him.
I understand the whole idea of detachment, but I fear because he has made no attempt to contact me without me contacting him first that when the two months are up, I will be divorced. Won't it be even harder to win him back? At least now I hope that he still feels some attachment to me because I am still his wife and he is still having an affair as opposed to a single man 'flying solo'.
Should I not contact him at all? How does that help with DBing? I don't want a divorce.
