Ugh... did your friends tell you about the sighting? People try to be helpful but man, that is information I would not want someone to tell me about. So sorry that was passed onto you.
My H doesn’t have anywhere for my kids to sleep so they stay here. The nights he sees them, I am usually out so he sees them here. I think if this becomes more permanent, we will have to try to figure something out but that would require buying them beds to put at his place. I could be wrong, but I’m not sure we are quite there yet. And I am really hoping we don’t get to that stage. That is going to be a talk we have a couple months down the road though. I think if he is still there in 2019 with no plans to return home, we will have to make some decisions. I am trying not to think that far ahead.
Don’t be too hard on yourself over the phone thing. I have only been to my H’s place once and I was very uncomfortable so I know what you mean. It’s like our place has a history of the two of us... his place does not so it feels like a stranger lives there... but it is my H. My kids have been to his place a few times so it is also a place where the three of them now have memories and I have been...erased? Definitely NOT a comfortable feeling. So give yourself a break on this one. (((HUGS)))
