Thank you. It is my H’s 45th birthday tomorrow so I am going away with my sister for an overnight shopping trip. My daughter was in tears tonight...wanted to know if me and her daddy were okay and why was I leaving for his birthday. Huh? Have you not noticed that your daddy isn’t living with us anymore? THIS is what you notice? Anyway... I didn’t say that. I just told her that I thought Daddy would enjoy having some time with her and her brother for his birthday. I also told her she could talk to her dad if she is upset about things. I don’t want her to necessarily but I do get tired of being the person who gets the questions and the tears. The kids don’t ever go there with him so he thinks they are AOK. Part of his delusion.
Wishing you much luck with your MC. I already have a therapist picked out for me and my H if we ever get to that point. He knows MC is one of my stipulations if he ever wants to return. I don’t want to go unless we both have the same goal which is to stay together and work it out. Will be thinking of you next week and hoping it all goes well. (((HUGS)))
