Hey dejavu6, Thanks again for taking the time to respond. Like you,my H seems to be rewriting our history which makes me think some of this is a MLC for him. But im not in denial I know some of this is my contribution for where we are. It has been an emotional rollercoaster ride but I am trying to promise myself to be as honest and open and and fearless as possible and GAL bigtime. The therapist was recommended by my therapist and specializes in EFT, emotionally focused therapy. I think on average it is 20 sessions long. I am hoping we can both hang in there, but I know it will get a lot worse before it gets better. I’m truly sorry youre H is being distant, wishing you all the best.
