Hi Hope

Sorry you are here. I am new here also and there are others who can give you better advice.

my 2 cents .. and painful and blunt as it sounds ... he doesn't want you right now. Pursing him makes you, in their eyes, the villain in their love story. Stories become less interesting when the villain is removed. Stop texting, calling, emailing. Let them get on with it. Without a villain it will soon fizzle into mundaness.

Take the advice from those above - GAL. Meet up with old friends, make new friends, go to the gym, take up a hobby. Anything to take your mind of him. It really is the best thing for you right now.

Good luck.


W40 (me), H40
M14, Together 16
D12, D9

BD Oct 17
Moved out Mar 18