You are probably right, and I need to keep my my mind from getting ahead of myself. Although after a loooong period of no sex,(I think we had it once in the last 4 months and it was like he was going through the motions.) it felt authentic and he was very sweet., and more interested in making me happy. He has been emotionally shut down for awhile except when we went a few weeks ago to visit my son for a long weekend. Just thought that maybe he is warming up a bit, maybe his feeling are changing. We have therapy again next week and I know it will be hard, and he will probably speak more about the ways we are not compatible. It will probably bum me out but I would be naive to think, one romantic night is going to wipe out all of the disjunction in my marriage.
He is away overnight and has texted me to see what happened with my S and her New Romantic interest. I have not replied....just hanging out with my S and watching movies in my BR and eating good food, and of course talking about how great last night was for both of us!
