Pretty much. Setting a boundary about not living like this is a personal choice you have to make if your ok with the MR ending. If your not, then that probably isnt a boundary you should be sending.

Believe me, my heart wanted to nice my WW back into our MR for a long time. She just used my niceness to cake eat.

Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof