Now 2 days since I got one of life’s “pivot events” that has changed my entire outlook of what my life looks like moving forward. I do believe that god works in mysterious ways thru people, and I’ve had a few interactions with friends and acquaintances that seem to be trending in a positive direction.
I’ve had 2 headhunters reach out on some intriguing job opportunities which I wouldn’t have considered 3 days ago. I plan to put myself out there and give them my due diligence as it could elevate my career into a Sr level role with a multi b organization in my field.
Met with IC today and she said my demeanor was the calmest and most relaxed she’s ever seen me in 2 and a half years. Realizing the weight that has been lifted out from under me I have this serenity I’ve not felt in a LONG time. She firmly believes W was anticipating another outcome with case dismissal that would have allowed her to make a play at potentially getting full custody of s. No more.
Not sure or care if WAW has heard my news, just assume so as some of my friends are aware who’s wife’s are close with w. Interesting fact is everyone that I’ve told....1st thing they say is how much they would pay to see W expression when she hears about it. I just say I can only focus on my journey and path, she can go in hers. Reality will finally set in that she is forgoing half of S’s childhood now. Could be the first truely “pain” event for W since BD that could cause her to get out of the clouds. W still is grasping to have any semblance of control over me...whereas she now has none.
GAL activities today include gym, taking dog to park, attending an anniversary dinner with friends.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
