Thank you DéjàVu. I reached out to Cadet to see another opinion as well l, and I think you may be right with regards to him maybe undergoing a new mental state. It’s still new though, so I’m not completely sold. I don’t know how else to put it. He has been thinking about a divorce for a while though, maybe since this Spring I presume.

H is stubborn, and doesn’t easily say his emotions. I’m more emotion-based and he is logical, although I am more stubborn than he is. He is much more analytic and reason-based (he works as an engineer) and I’m right-brained (I work in the arts sector). We are complete opposites.


Together: 11 years
M: 5
No kids
D Bomb: Aug 2018
S: Aug 2018

Living Apart Since: Feb 2017