Unsure what's next, what to do.....

[Wanted1]

W,

I told you it sounded like an ultimatum or threat. Boundaries are tough for newbies because they are hard to enforce.

Ok she is now calling your bluff. What is your boundary? What are the consequences? I have to warn you that it better be a strong one.

My boundary is not allowing her to be in our house claiming to be thinking through our situation and trying to make a rational decision when she still talking to OM. Not sure how you can make a decision rationally with that as a distraction. Am I wrong to set this type of a boundary?