OK here goes first post... pt 5

[Twofeet]

Sorry, I haven't read your whole sitch just pieces. Have you read NMMNG?

No, but I will look it up. Do you think it would be useful, and if so, why?

By the way, W birthday today and we have to meet for the kids change-over. Should I mention anything given that she has submitted a statement for the next court custody date that is packed with lies against me?

https://www.amazon.co.uk/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1540043038&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65&keywords=no+more+mr+nice+guy+robert+glover&dpPl=1&dpID=41mzOaXP%2BcL&ref=plSrch

Whether or not you are a true blue Mr. Nice Guy this book will have pieces of knowledge to strengthen who you are as a man.
If you have to do a face to face exchange then wishing her Happy B-Day just to be cordial is probably fine, but leave it at that. Maybe just do it in passing. Don't treat her like she is your W, treat her like she is just another person. Friendly, but not friends. Don't reach out to her.
Last note if you have read DR go back and read it again. Follow the book it is for you as much as it is for the MR.

Be strong!