You definitely do not want to say what you wrote in your thread because it is more of an ultimatum and they don't work with WW.
The problem you have now is she has all the power in the relationship and she knows it. Again, I am not pounding on you but when she had multiple indiscretions and you over looked it and thanked her for not ding you it was a major setback.
Unless you are willing to set a strong boundary you are probably best just leaving it alone. Remember you can't control what she does, you can only decide what you are willing to tolerate.
Don't think for a second that I know this isn't easy. This is probably the hardest thing you will ever go through. Right now all the decisions you are making are to stop the pain. Unfortunately you have to walk right through it.
Before you do anything, stop and ask yourself, will this action make me look strong or weak.
