Found out tonight my wife is still talking to OM. Here is what I think I’m gonna do, but any suggestions are appreciated.
Me: W, are you still talking to OM?
If she lies, tell her I’ve got proof. If she admits it —
Me: Ok, I think it’s terribly disrespectful to me and our marriage that you are continuing this. I don’t care if it’s “nothing”. It IS something given the history. I can’t allow such disrespect so you have a choice you are going to have to make. You can either cease talking to him and continue sleeping the basement and living in the MH while we figure out what’s next or if you want to continue talking to him, I’ll give you a couple days for you to get other arrangements figured out and then I’m going to need you to move out.
Thoughts? I’m going to be extremely calm during the convo.
Last edited by Wanted1; 10/20/1812:40 AM.
M: 34 W:34 D:7 D:6 S:3
M: 9.5 years T: 12
OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18 IHS begins W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18 W files: 12/21/18 D Final: 2/25/19
