I would like joint custody but for this to work we would have to live near each other. If we do divorce she will stay where she is (in the country) but I will be moving back to the city. So about 10 miles apart but doesn't make the co-parenting work.
I drive 18 miles to work in the city from a smaller town. My Buddy is 20 miles away from his X, and possibly farther from school and kid activities. He is making it work. 10 miles is close. There are solutions. We can worry about that later.
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For me living where we were did not make me happy, I lived there as she wanted too.
Always trade off’s.
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Should I be asking her if she needs me to have children more?
I don't think you should be ASKING. I think you should OFFER. If she refuses then you can start setting some boundaries.
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