I would like joint custody but for this to work we would have to live near each other. If we do divorce she will stay where she is (in the country) but I will be moving back to the city. So about 10 miles apart but doesn't make the co-parenting work. For me living where we were did not make me happy, I lived there as she wanted too. So I am torn really, yes I want 50/50 with kids but I also need to be happy with location.
Should I be asking her if she needs me to have children more?
