No I am staying in a shared house currently so not 50/50. Just seeing kids twice a week. Yes I am working full time.
OK thanks.
Originally Posted by WW
it's not like you have to juggle work and kids all week
I assume she works based off her statement. I translate this to "H, please help parent our kids more. I need a break. Could you do this for me?"
So the question is, do you want 50/50 parenting responsibilities if you end up divorced? I will assume you say yes. Correct me if my assumption is wrong.
DBing is walking two (or more) paths at the same time. Preparing for divorce and repairing the relationship.
One part of preparing for D is getting yourself into a 50/50 parenting arrangement. This also helps in repairing the R.
As far as repairing the relationship, one of the most important things RIGHT NOW is to change the way you interact. You change, FORCES her to change on how she responds.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
