Hi Pain,


You have to challenge your beliefs during this process. OMG I can relate to everything you are saying.

The crazy part, is you have all the power to change all these feelings, when ever you want. Your brain is a powerful crazy animal that does crazy things to you. It is lying to you. Tricking you. Stopping you.

Two books I think would be good for you to read:

Short book. I have read this one so many times. EACH TIME I get something new:
https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319

This one is big:
https://www.amazon.com/Art-Seductio...p;sr=1-1&keywords=power+of+seduction



I wish you well during this most difficult time.


Keep making positive changes and SHE WILL NOTICE.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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