Originally Posted by Ready2Change
One of your gifts:
Finding the DB support system.


Truth! And generally improved relationships with everyone except W. Better at judging the intentions and actions of others. More compassionate, a little bit better at listening. More "awake."

Originally Posted by Ready2Change
My Ex-wife is on her own path. She is still stuck the way she was.


I've heard a lot of people say that, both here and in real life. Almost like the one who gets dumped is better off in the long run.

And as for separations, can't say I'm a huge fan but one of AS's comments made me realize that it probably beats the alternative. Once I accepted it for what it was, it started paying off. Time will tell.


H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")