The received wisdom here is that the best GAL activities are the ones that get you out of the house interacting with other humans in real life. Hunting with a new buddy, meeting up with strangers to try a new hobby, things like that. It allows you to be a little bit "hard to get" because suddenly you have a lot going on and you're not as available to your W when she expects you to be. It allows you to meet new people who can provide the kind of connection that you may not be able to have with your W at the moment. And it helps you feel more confident about yourself, thereby improving your interactions with W.


H: 35 W: 33
M: 11 T: 13

4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1")
6/23/18: I moved out
8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")