Tha is Cadet. That’s a really good analogy to use.

He emailed me on Tuesday, but I only saw it yesterday.
I have not checked my email in a while. I haven’t read the email as of yet but it’s most likely him checking up on me to see how I’m doing as he usually does after the separation.

Not sure if I should respond... he’s just checking up on my well being and how I’m doing with the treatments.

Should I respond? Honestly have been contemplating this all night. On one hand, I don’t want to be bitter and leave him hanging, but on the other hand I also just don’t want to respond. I just essentially feel like when he decided to leave, he threw away the “personal relationship” and his privilege to know my state and well-being.


Together: 11 years
M: 5
No kids
D Bomb: Aug 2018
S: Aug 2018

Living Apart Since: Feb 2017