So when we are detaching and finally doing okay for ourselves, how do we handle when our midlife/walkaway spouses barely acknowledge us.
Persevere-Happily and patiently. Treat him like anyone in the service industry.
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My H comes over to pick up our kiddo and he barely looks at me or forces himself not to look me in the eye, doesn't return my polite greeting most of the times
His issue. Do not worry about it. Focus on being friendly and happy.
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will just walk away to go see our son WHILE I'm talking about things he asks about regarding our son's school, health, etc.
Stop talking. If this pattern continues. Set a boundary.
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Lately I had a few questions for him on some generator and house things since its getting colder and you'd think I asked him of the world. It's beyond getting old. I asked about the generator so I can keep his son warm in a blackout and he barely talks
Ask someone else to come help.
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so can someone tell me how they handled when their spouse treated them rudely.
Set a boundry. First step: walk way.
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