Yep, this is true. My W also has gone through periods where, because of the messages I've sent her, she thinks all I want from her is sex. 180ing coupled with not initiating can erase that illusion.
Of course the main reason for not initiating is because it reminds them that you disgust them. Never a good thing if R is your goal.
Steve, surely at some point we don't disgust them. lol
So if I'm not sure where I stand. Should I never try to initiate?
I suspect we are moving toward piecing, but since it is not one event, who knows?
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
