Well that didn't go as planned. Got to the house at lunch time and couldn't get in as she had left keys in front and back door, I presume but maybe she changed the locks.

Anyway, I called the police but they said it's a civil matter and to talk to my solicitor. Also she already was one step ahead and called them to say she was scared to let me in. Solicitor was useless and said you have rights but you may need to get a court order and they are expensive and not guaranteed. So giving that a miss.

So, next step I will go back tomorrow when she is at work as this is a matter of principle now. I will also pull the same stunt as her about being scared.

Also today found she blocked my calls to my son's phone and also keeps my daughters phone switched off permanently. Find this totally disgusting behaviour and she is also slagging me off to them continually.


Good thing about today I finally woke up and realised she is evil and I want out of this marriage ASAP.