.... I get that both of us are giving "our sides" of the story and therefore the truth probably lies in the middle.....
Nope. Google "orthogonal rotation" for some really nerdy statistics concepts. The truth isn't in the middle, it's like 90 degrees off to the left, in the corner with a teddy bear waiting for this to all blow over.
H: 35 W: 33 M: 11 T: 13
4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1") 6/23/18: I moved out 8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")