There is currently not a confirmed Om but I gave resigned myself to the fact that there very likely is something on the side here and accept that fact. I am not sure if it is a physical or emotional affair or if one exists period but it certainly seems that way.
There is. Real or imaginary. Time will answer this question.
Time will certainly tell
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So I find myself stuck between a rock and a hard place.
This is vague. Elaborate and clarify.
Just torn on really trying to accomplish what is best for the kids and myself. I know it is vague, it is vague for myself as well right now. This is a subject I really need to gain clarity on.
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I plan to stick with what I am working on including Gal
What are the next 3 GAL you have planned?
Continuing with my exercise regime, continuing with my new mens group meetings every Friday night, a couple of activities with friends, fishing and golf specifically.
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DB'ing,
What new changes are you planning?
Biggest thing is maintaining no pursuit, re stating my boundaries so they are clear and sticking to them, controlling my emotions and not reacting to her mood/anger
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self improvement mentally
What techniques are you using for this?
IC, meditation, reading
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self improvement physically,
You are working out. How often?
I am now 4 times a week. Also quit smoking and pretty much zero alcohol.
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looking my best,
What specific changes have you made? Any others you want?
New hair style, new clothes and shoes, new smell good, and keeping up with it throughout the day. In other words not throwing on a grubby shirt and sweat pants when I get home.
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looking after the kids
Enjoy every moment. Take mental snapshots. 10 years goes by really fast.
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and accepting what I cannot change.
What can you change? Changing the way you interact is critical. List out the ways you have changes your interaction. List out areas of improvement.
