There is currently not a confirmed Om but I gave resigned myself to the fact that there very likely is something on the side here and accept that fact. I am not sure if it is a physical or emotional affair or if one exists period but it certainly seems that way.
There is. Real or imaginary. Time will answer this question.
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So I find myself stuck between a rock and a hard place.
This is vague. Elaborate and clarify.
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I plan to stick with what I am working on including Gal
What are the next 3 GAL you have planned?
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DB'ing,
What new changes are you planning?
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self improvement mentally
What techniques are you using for this?
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self improvement physically,
You are working out. How often?
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looking my best,
What specific changes have you made? Any others you want?
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looking after the kids
Enjoy every moment. Take mental snapshots. 10 years goes by really fast.
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and accepting what I cannot change.
What can you change? Changing the way you interact is critical. List out the ways you have changes your interaction. List out areas of improvement.
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