LH, There is currently not a confirmed Om but I gave resigned myself to the fact that there very likely is something on the side here and accept that fact. I am not sure if it is a physical or emotional affair or if one exists period but it certainly seems that way. So I find myslef stuck between a rock and a hard place. I plan to stick with what I am working on including Gal, DB'ing, self improvement mentally, self improvement physically, looking my best, looking after the kids and accepting what I cannot change.