GAL tomorrow is board game night. Might play a game called Munchkin, which I was told I need to try.
Have fun! It's not a very deep game, but it's fun the first couple times through the cards. Enjoy.
Originally Posted by burned
The last time we talked about it she said she would use the shared account to pay for someone to fix them. (In between then and now was the "money fight" saga.)
Im not really sure what was confusing. You had a 'fight' about money (especially joint money) and she used probably a decent amount to buy and install something for the house. Im not sure she was really asking permission since it was already done, but more just apprising you of what happened since youre going to see it on the statement at some point. I wouldnt read any more into it than that.
Originally Posted by burned
since I gave the impression that I don't care what she does with the thermostats or the money.
I disagree. You gave an impression that you care a LOT about money just Saturday.....
Originally Posted by burned
It feels like she's needling me, baiting me, or trying to make me feel guilty, or all of the above.
I think this is you projecting onto her. Do you feel needled? baited? guilty? I think shes just reporting a fact that broke your....rhythm. Accept it for what it is, reply, and move on.
Originally Posted by burned
I was warned that my interactions with her would get worse after I went dark. That's what I think this is. When they do this kind of thing, what are they trying to accomplish? I'm asking only because I tend to be very naive about interpersonal interactions, and this is a useful arena for learning how to look at things more carefully.
I dont see how this is bad? Unless she was screaming at you in all caps or adding tons of snide comments or something. But what you wrote sounded like she just sent you the facts and you got yourself into a tizzy about it. Are you expecting...more? something different?
